Epitomised, held in black glass corneas,
now reduced to flesh and blood.
So fragile, so stainable.
its image, unattainable.
So draining on the retina,
that the eye couldn't sustain.
It rolled down in a liquid globe,
muddy, opaque, sickly,
That only reflects itself,
birthing infinity in its womb.
A gloomy infinity.
For it's the object that makes infinity private.
But its object watches from without,
not capable of acknowledging its origin.
And the origin doesn't want to acknowledge its manifestation.
The gloomy globe bears mute witness to the pain.
For it's so much easier to hate imperfection,
than to love the nearly perfect.

To the man that could be…

I have been absolutely distracted and disoriented this week. I do not even know how to start this post or if I should at all. Though I do know that I need to.

It was over breakfast today, with a friend. We happened to be discussing his future prospects and preferences when I blurted out that id probably sit for GRE sometime, though not to get myself an admission abroad, that’s the last thing I’d want to do, but just because I like doing what it needs us to do….digest words.

I remember learning the difference between an ego ‘ist’ and an ego ‘tist’ when I was six. I remember stunning people with terms like ‘ubiquitous’ and ‘idiosyncrasies’ at grade 2. I was taught it was never ‘awf’ human bondage, but ‘av’ human bondage. I was told it wasn’t ‘echh’ but ‘hech’ with a very subtle ‘huh’ (though I remember vehemently opposing the idea, stating it was probably the effect of hanging out with lots of friends of a south Indian origin). It was only in the year 2004 that I realized that it indeed is ‘hech’.

I had tinkered with a stolen CRO at seven. (yessir!, though I know that doesn’t show much, and I suspect it cost him his job) I had injected IV into anonymous buttocks at ten. I had seen the live pictures of an ongoing CT scan and repeated the process without adult help…. The list is endless.

He could be a great father. A great friend. A great mentor.

But I grew up and the social pressures grew on me.

It’s terrible to grow up. The grown ups take things too seriously. Things that a six year old doesn’t need to bother with. Things that a sixty year old wouldn’t bother with. But then when your six, you cant resist the pressure. And when you’re sixty, you can’t undo whats done anymore. Sometimes I wish things had happened a bit differently. I would be a different person. So would he.

We are strangers now. I don’t think I could recognize him anymore. Not from a distance atleast. But I do have an inkling that his hairline has probably receded. And the radius of his balding patch has increased by over an inch. (o yes, we measured that too, once upon a time, not to mention the lice he caught once right there and stored overnight under a whiteboard marker cap to show it to me under the microscope the next day, after I was back from school) we laughed for hours together over the lice’s daftness at its choice of a place for safe dwelling.

I suppose he does keep a track of what I’m up to. In a broad sense. I don’t speak to him. Not done that in the last 6 years. I’d want him to know that he is not thought of with wrath (which he probably thinks). It’s a new found indifference. At the same time I know he will never read this, and I’m sighing with relief at it. Nobody who makes a difference will read this.

But I pray to the all mighty, to bless him with the same indifference I have recently found. That would make his life easier, as it has made mine. And lots of fond good wishes for another life (if that happens in the first place, I have my reservations)

May he make different choices then if faced with similar situations. May he marry, procreate, and have a lovely daughter. May it be me.

borrowed hide, to hide.

Had to make one of those unexpected trips back to B'bay. the last minute packing din't leave much time or energy to decide on a suitable textual matter to keep me company through the flight. (you can't expect much from the airlines these days, especially when you're travelling economy!)
Waiting at the lounge at the airport, i stared at the huge LCD screen hanging ominously overhead,impudently and unrelentingly showing slolen clips of the Ash-AB wedding rerimony. i almost denounced the media folks as a bunch of fools, but then i stood corrected seeing the crowd enthralled by the 2 minute clip, that was being played for the 17th time in the last half an hour. well, one can't scowl at the supplier of marbles claiming to be the 'market movers' when the market seems to be filled with midgets! besides, with the kind of 24x7 news channels, there is an ostensible dearth of 'news' happening around the world worth being reported. hmm. bones for dogs and carrot for donkeys... as long as it pays.
Restless and frustrated, i decided to re-orient some of my silent acerbic sarcasm at my co-passengers.(at this point comes the announcement of the flight being delayed due to air traffic.i managed to restrain a free display of a paroxysm of rage)
2 kids were playing car racing, with a cute authentic American accent. i could almost sense the pang of sympathy that it aroused in me. the skin colour that would alienate them in a place they had come to think as home, and the accent that would alienate them at home, a home that refused to be home to them any longer. then came in the mother with a brazenly conjured up fake accent, one that wouldn't fit in any corner of the massive and generous globe. here is a snippet from their conversation.

mother: aam feeling hawdd.no fan heeyerr. bluddy indhyaa!
daughter:but the AC's on...
mother: yea beydaa, bud aam feeling hawdd!!

At this point, our good lady sheds away all her decency, squats on the floor, opens up her suitcase to display an embarrassing amount of underthings,(one could easily believe that they were being smuggled to the States),pulls out a lace handkerchief and mops away her sweat with a painfully sophisticated pat-pat and dab-dab. it made me wonder...does the accent come in an attempt to conceal the uncouthness of the natural attitude?
though i'm yet to figure out, what made 'Indhyaa' so 'bluddy' to our good lady here. Agreed, that the number of aircrafts have gone up but the infrastructure is still shamefully trying to catch up. Agreed that we are a triffle below the other 'developed' countries, but give me another nation that has come this far, at this rate, with 1652 different languages and dialects,with so many diferent castes with a million conflicting interests,with a billion strong population with a fourth being below poverty line and yet we are quoted as "THE largest successful democracy". and not to mention the nearly 200 years of british subjugation and planned mortification of the nation.

this might make me sound like a die hard patriot, but anyone who knows me will scoff at the appelation. but yes, i do feel tithered to my country, my people and the kinds, in a strange way.though another thing the lady needs to thank "indhyaa" is for the lay man's fear of the law enforcing mechanism. if not for that, she would invariably fid 32 minus a few teeth while brushing them that night.